The Art Of Delusion

Delusion—a term that's been doing the rounds on social media, and I've been hooked. Have you noticed this trend too? The idea that a sprinkle of delusion might be the secret to achieving your goals? Celebrities like Shay Mitchell have even shared their delusional moments, like when she was doing bottle service before landing her big break. According to her, she was an actress playing a bottle girl, and a dash of delusion fuelled her auditions until success came knocking.

So here's the thing—delusion has its duality. On one side, it's the positive force propelling people towards their dreams. On the flip side, it's the not-so-great trait of being out of touch with reality. Let's unpack this a bit.

Traditional definitions of delusion often take a darker turn, associating it with false beliefs rooted in mental illness. But hang on, isn't there a positive spin to it? I mean, think about faith. Complete trust or confidence in something without concrete proof. Suddenly, delusion starts sounding a lot like faith, right?

Now, let's break down the two sides of the delusion coin. On the sunny side, we've got the believers, the ones who say you need a bit of delusion to soar above reality's gray clouds. It's like manifesting your dreams, having faith in yourself, and believing in the unseen. If you caught my last podcast with pro footballer Danny Reid, he attributed his success to a touch of delusion, keeping his conviction strong despite numerous obstacles. It's all about that unwavering faith.

Then, there's the comedy side of TikTok, where delusion becomes the punchline. Picture the girl who thinks everyone is in love with her or believes she's found her soulmate after a 15-minute conversation. It's the kind of delusion that draws a laugh, but it also raises questions about maintaining fixed false beliefs in the face of reality checks.

Now, the million-dollar question: How delusional is too delusional? Let's set some ground rules, shall we?

First off, when your delusion starts involving specific people, especially in the realm of manifesting the perfect partner, it's time to hit pause. You can't control others, so keep it general.

Next up, self-awareness is your anchor. If your delusional bubble lacks a touch of reality, you might want to reassess. Being self-aware while practicing positive delusion is like having the best of both worlds.

And finally, beware of the complete disconnection from reality. Celebrities often get flak for being out of touch, but let's cut them some slack. Filthy rich and living in a bubble, it's easy to lose sight of the everyday struggles. Yet, it's a cautionary tale about the extremes of delusion.

So, as we navigate this dance between faith and delusion, remember to stay grounded. Pair your positive delusion with a sprinkle of self-awareness, meditation, and moments of presence. It's like crafting your reality while staying connected to the one we all share.

So, all-in-all, remember to keep a dash of delusion in your pocket, stay self-aware, and I'll catch you in the next episode! Until then, make those dreams happen!

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